June 22, 2026

The Real Slam Pigs of Rhode Island with Kam K.

The Real Slam Pigs of Rhode Island with Kam K.
The Real Slam Pigs of Rhode Island with Kam K.
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The Real Slam Pigs of Rhode Island with Kam K.
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Travis and Emma are joined by Kam (aka gay4bravo) for a very special reality roundup all about The Real Housewives of Rhode Island season 1 episode 8 (Splitting Hairs). Listen if you love a cracker, slam pigs, and Bravo!

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0:00:12 introductions & last songs

0:04:27 all about Kam

0:08:36 complaining

0:13:42 RHORI recap

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The Real Slam Pigs of Rhode Island © 2026 by Travis Rhoden and Emma Hesser is licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 4.0.

00:00 - introductions & last songs

04:29 - all about Kam

08:35 - complaining

13:44 - RHORI recap

WEBVTT

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hi i'm travis i'm emma and this is bestie oh

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guys you didn't let him go i'm i am so really

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i'm travis i'm emma i'm cam and this is bestie

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approved um so cam is gay for bravo on tick tock

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and we connected on tick tock and i love his

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content i love his commentary on the housewives

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and like everything in bravo in general and i

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found out that he is in the market to start a

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podcast so i said what the hell why don't you

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come on and like practice with us and see if

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you like it and here we are so cam's gonna cover

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the real housewives of rhode island with us and

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i think we're gonna have an amazing great time

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so yay um cam this is a question that we ask

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everyone at the beginning of every episode what

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is the last song you listen to So I listened

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to this morning Ariana Grande's new song. I think

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it's I Hate That I Made You Love Me. I think

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that's what it's called. it's pretty good it's

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a little slow for me it's a little emotional

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um i it was hard for me not to compare it to

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her last song that she launched before the album

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uh yes and that one was like blowing up right

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away this one is more like toned down but it's

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nice you know we love ariana she's she's good

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yeah she's saying you know i she can't do a lot

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of wrong for me i she is someone who like she's

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gone through a few different iterations of herself

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and i there's not one i don't like because at

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the end of the day you have to forgive her for

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the pipes like you can't tell me she can't sing

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so and i gotta tell you like i can get over that

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time she went in and licked a donut i can get

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over that time she um what was the story she

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was at rockefeller center for something and she

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um got into a got into an elevator and there

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was someone else in the elevator and like she

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was like being like chased down by a ton of fans

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i might cut this piece of this out but like she

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did say in the elevator i hate all of them and

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i wish they would all die like talking about

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her fans she's a diva first of all i'm not gonna

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argue that she's not a diva ever and if people

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were just like constantly chasing you and taking

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your photo all the time i'm sure you have moments

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where you say things you don't mean you know

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what i mean i agree i do love her like the idea

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of her as a friend though because she got when

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she did saturday night live she became very very

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close to bowen yang and hearing their dynamics

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i'm i'm obsessed with them i love them together

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but yeah I think they're a cute pair I love seeing

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him in Wicked and she got all her friends the

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seven rings when she did that's so cute yes I

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agree Emma what was your last song um it's Janice

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STFU for the kids because Jack is right here

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from the new Drake album don't talk to me about

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it okay I won't I was in high school in 2014

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and that's really all I need to say you graduated

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high school in 2014 no no no I graduated in 2016

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but I was in high school in 2014 which is when

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nothing was the same came out and so unfortunately

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that corny man will live in my brain forever

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that's okay My last song was Promises by Calvin

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Harris and Sam Smith. Yeah. Here we are. Cam,

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tell us about yourself. Tell us about how you

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got here. Tell us about your love for Bravo and

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the Housewives. Tell us about you. It was so

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random. When I was in my early 20s, I had this

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roommate. Last week. I was going to say, are

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you in your early 20s right this moment? What,

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23? I'm 29. Oh, me too. Okay, perfect. In what

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century? Next century, you're 29? I genuinely

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thought you were like 19 or 20. I swear to Christ,

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I thought you were like 23. I thought you were

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going to tell me what college you are going to.

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Keep talking. Yeah. I'm so serious. I was like,

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okay, like now I don't feel as bad about myself

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and now I don't want to kill myself. But yeah,

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like I had this roommate and then his boyfriend

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came over. I was watching Game of Thrones and

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he's like, stop watching Game of Thrones. Let's

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put on the Real Housewives of New Jersey. And

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it was like the scene where Teresa was like walking

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out and she was like. saying this rumor about

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Jackie's husband and I'm like oh my god I need

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to watch this show and then I started my TikTok

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page after that what a good entry point that

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is yeah everyone if you're listening uh I'm in

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Jack's room it's been a day Emma's house we we

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recorded Emma's house I'm like I mean obviously

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like we're remote right now but My favorite thing

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is like, it's always a surprise like what you're

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going to get when we're at Emma's house or when

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Emma's like on the pod because it's like a baby

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crying or it's like I have to edit out so many

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like screams in the background because you never

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know what you're going to get in Emma's house

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of horrors sometimes. If you stay to the end

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of this video, if you're genuinely watching this

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stream, I will show you what behind me looks

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like at the very end. Jack's room is a feast

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for the eyes, I will tell you. It's a seven -year

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-old's room. There's no arguing that. But I want

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to talk about the concept of viewing Game of

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Thrones and being like, do you want to see some

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real drama? Yes. What was the entry point to

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you starting a TikTok? This is my real question.

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Cause it's like, was it like almost immediate

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where you were like, I love this. I have to talk

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about this. Like there, there is a real fandom

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and obsession here. Like, how did you get there?

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So I, in the beginning, like my page was just

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about me and my cat. And then when I posted one

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video about when Margaret's hair was pulled by

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Danielle, i that's when i was like oh okay like

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there's a lot of people that like this so let

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me i i was scared of having my face on camera

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because i was trying to lose a lot of weight

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and i was very insecure and you know like after

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i gained some confidence i'm like okay i need

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to i can't just post like memes about it anymore

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like i need my face to be on this page yeah i

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love that and emma and i like so emma is a new

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like not a new new mother i guess like she she

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just had her second baby months ago but i'm thinning

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down for like the 37th time in my life i mean

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but you like you had a baby it's different i

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and i used to weigh 300 pounds so like we both

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get like that struggle of like trying to figure

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out like when you want to be on camera like i

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that's really impressive though that like you

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Found that confidence. It's amazing. I love that.

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Yeah, because it is hard, like, even when you

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do lose the weight, to be like, I can put myself

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out here. So good for you. Yeah. I'm excited

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to get into this episode. But first, another

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thing we always do is complain. So do you have

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anything to complain about before we kick this

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off? Oh, I do. And it's about the parking here

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in California. Like, I understand that. Finding

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parking here is like finding gold. But I hate

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when I park outside and someone, like it's parallel

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parking, and then they park like this close to

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the front of my car. And I'm like, I'm trying

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to go to work here. So that's been my main complaint

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this week. It does feel like they're attacking

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you and trying to entrap you. Emma, what do you

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have to complain about? Other than a very...

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niche to me thing but i do need to talk about

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it jack is obsessed with these popsicles that

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are like 100 % juice and that's why i get them

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because it's like sweet treat not that bad for

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him right four times four separate occasions

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we have ordered these popsicles and unbeknownst

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to me Me being the person who has put in no substitutions

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that are acceptable to me, because there are

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none in the eyes of Jack. Four separate times,

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they have delivered us 10 mini drumsticks in

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the place of these popsicles. Are they the ones

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that are like the oval with like the stick in

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it that like they have the fruits on the box?

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No. The popsicles? Yeah. johnny pops okay i know

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exactly which ones you're talking about those

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are like you you don't go through the frozen

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goods aisle and think to yourself a drumstick

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is an acceptable substitution for that that is

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not the same thing and i'm dumbfounded because

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this has happened on more than one occasion and

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it's not the the same shopper so where are the

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it's really kind of driving me crazy But again,

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niche to me. I don't think anyone else is facing

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this. I don't think it's that niche, though,

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because I feel like I'm constantly seeing on

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TikTok, like, oh, yes. I have one random fucking

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tomato in my kitchen right now. And I don't even

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know what they replaced. A surprise for everyone.

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A treat for the eyes. i have to complain about

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i just bought and so i have a very specific type

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of sunglass that i wear and it's only aviators

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like it's like the big aviators right and i have

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had these oakley aviators for five or six years

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and i don't know what happened to them but they

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are lost they are completely lost so i said to

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myself i will buy a new pair of aviators I buy

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a pair of Ray -Bans. I spend like $300 on them.

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And I have not dropped them. I don't know what

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happened, but I was wearing the aviators. And

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then like almost out of nowhere, I was like,

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oh, a hair fell down into them. And then like

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I start like trying to grab for this hair. And

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then I was like, why isn't it moving? I take

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them off. There's just a crack across the lens.

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And I have never been this mad in my entire life.

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And like the only thing I can think of is like.

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I it got too hot in my car and like the like

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coming from like 70 ish degree weather to like

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coming into almost 100 degrees in my car before

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the air conditioner kicked on I can't figure

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out what happened but I like I've had them for

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like three weeks I would take it back to Ray

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-Ban and be like there has been no trauma right

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I'm so mad I'm so mad the lens even i'd be i

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would be fine with that but i'm just like these

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were three hundred dollars no that's weird because

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remember those um ray -ban aviators that kenny

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got me that like he showed you at the apple store

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yes yes yes those are like i've had them for

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almost two years now and they're like good as

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new so well and that's the thing the ray -bans

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are good Like they're not cheap by any stretch

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of the imagination. So I might send back to Ray

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-Ban and see like what we can figure out. But

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yeah, that was a lot. Tell them you have a podcast.

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I'll talk about you to my tits. Oh God. So Cam,

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you chose this episode that we're going to dig

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into and I'm excited about it, but I want to

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know why you chose this episode. Just specifically

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the fight between Rosie and Kelsey at our house.

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I was just thrown off a little bit. And yeah,

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that's why. Cool. He wants to talk about the

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tea. That's fine. So for anyone that hasn't picked

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up on it, we're talking about the season one,

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episode eight of The Real Housewives of Rhode

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Island. the the title's splitting hairs but i

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the title in my heart is the real slam pigs of

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rhode island uh and we'll get into it um so jumping

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right in we get the opening shots joellen and

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her hot ass husband are having lunch and she's

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like screaming at one of her kids for like wiping

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his hand on the white carpet and then liz takes

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her cat out for a walk and like people that take

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Go ahead. I think if your cat is willing to go

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on a walk with you, because listen, a cat's not

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going to do something it doesn't want to do.

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I think it's cunty. Yeah. I think she has a bangle

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or something. Those are my energy cats. So it's

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such an attractive thing to do. Can you imagine

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seeing that outside of your house? No. I mean,

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she's got that massive boardwalk. I'm sure she's

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like taking the cat up and down the boardwalk.

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Like she's not taking it out for a walk, like

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in the street. I love those drone footages of

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that property. Yeah. Well, knowing what we know

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now, where like we, there's like stuff that's

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coming out about like the investigations into.

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liz and like dino and everything i'm like well

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now i know how she was affording it but we go

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over to alicia's house for a driving lesson with

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billy and we find out uh selena has dance five

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days a week and she so she needs to start driving

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selena to dance and This comes after finding

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out Alicia's like run over the woman and it's

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a whole thing and like she she's afraid of driving

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and she's been run off the interstate. So she

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brings like a full pharmacy of like rose water

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spray and peppermint oil and then she blows through

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two stop signs while she's unpacking the trip

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with the other women and like it's the most chaotic

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thing I've ever seen in my entire life and like

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something. Emma knows about me is that I hate

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the tropes of like when the housewives take their

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kids like for driving lessons and it's like okay

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you're gonna drive and I'm so scared and like

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this whole thing and like the one thing I didn't

00:16:09.519 --> 00:16:11.860
hate about this was Billy because he was a calming

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force and then Alicia's just like I gotta have

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a crack I gotta have this I gotta have and I'm

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just like oh my god it's so stressful I'm so

00:16:17.679 --> 00:16:21.360
stressed out by this she'll pass out if she doesn't

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have her crackers like Bless his heart, I would

00:16:28.269 --> 00:16:32.570
have said driver's ed for you, babe. I don't

00:16:32.570 --> 00:16:34.470
know why he didn't, because I'm like, I have

00:16:34.470 --> 00:16:36.669
real concerns about her on the road, where she

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blows through two stop signs, and there's she's

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like, well, why the two in a row? And then she's

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like, this close to the steering wheel. I'm like,

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I've never seen anything like it. And I honestly

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do think that there are people who, nothing against

00:16:52.950 --> 00:16:57.960
her, but like, driving is not for everyone you're

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just a passenger princess maybe and like when

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she did the whole thing about i ran over a woman

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i did this i i thought it was an act but like

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i swear to god i believe this is her I know.

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I kind of figured she just, like, bumped someone

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or, like, you know, I don't know. No, have you

00:17:16.839 --> 00:17:18.779
seen her talking about, like, it was a very traumatic

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thing where, like, she doesn't know if the woman

00:17:20.519 --> 00:17:22.579
was trying to kill herself or what, but, like,

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this is, like, since the episode came out, she's

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talked about it in, like, the after show where,

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like, this woman, like, threw herself in front

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of the car. Like, it's, oh, yeah, this is a real

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thing. That's not even on her, but I can see

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how it would, like, scare her away. Oh, yeah.

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The next note I wrote was, I literally have never

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seen someone with their seat so close to the

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steering wheel. I'm just like, how is... I can't

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be comfortable for her. But then she goes over

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this bridge and she's like... They changed it

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and they're celebrating at the end and I'm like,

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yay, I guess. I don't know. I don't know. I don't

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feel... It's not that I don't feel great about

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her driving her daughter around. I don't want

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her on the road unless she's comfortable in herself.

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And I don't think she's there yet. I think there

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needs to be a driver hired. And then that would

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be better. Yeah, like instead of the 10 % of

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the pizza place, maybe we hire a driver. I don't

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know. I could be wrong. I feel like she's going

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to save money in car repairs in the future by

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just hiring a driver. I agree. Insurance claims,

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too. Before we just give it up. So we go over

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to Rosie's house. She takes her dog outside for

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a little walk. And then she reminds us for the

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4 ,000th time. that she's building a 5 000 square

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foot addition onto her house and the this this

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all feels so disingenuous to me like just just

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build the structure and like you don't have to

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keep talking about it like it's okay we believe

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you we see the like the foundation laid stop

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talking about it and just do it like it's exhausting

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i don't get it because i feel like it would be

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so much hotter to be like oh yeah look this just

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got finished big project look at all this space

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in here and just like show us what like you know

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what i mean yeah like i don't even want to see

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the process like that's anything about concrete

00:19:37.160 --> 00:19:40.420
girl i don't mind seeing the process but like

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it feels like she has something to prove how

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much she keeps talking about it like yeah that's

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what i mean it's like i would rather not see

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any of it than to like hear Okay, I see what

00:19:51.180 --> 00:19:58.900
you're saying. Emma put... I added a note. I

00:19:58.900 --> 00:20:01.339
forgot I said that. No, please go for it. He

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sent me the summary of the episode and in this

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I said, okay, Donald in his ballroom. And I was

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just like, who is this for? I don't know. Why

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is he talking about it? the shot of it like in

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the beginning of the episode and i'm like what

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like this looks weird and why are we seeing this

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so from my understanding because i feel like

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they talked about this in the very first episode

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where like this was like it was a it was a lake

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house and like lake houses but like by their

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nature because we my family has one too and i'm

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listening to me i'm rosie and i'm bragging about

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my lake house but like it's like they're not

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they're not laid out like a normal house. Cause

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like the whole thing is like, you're doing it

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to like, it's, it's for the enjoyment of like

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fishing, boating, whatever you're doing. So it

00:20:51.980 --> 00:20:54.440
does look strange the way they're like adding

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on to it, because I think they're trying to make

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it into a home where it's not designed to be

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a primary home. I completely agree with you.

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Yeah. But then Rosie throws on those stupid moon

00:21:07.180 --> 00:21:09.579
boots things. And then she's talking about how

00:21:09.579 --> 00:21:11.079
she's going to ask Kelsey for another haircut.

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And then. she like we'll get to this eventually

00:21:16.619 --> 00:21:19.380
something about rosie bothers me i want to like

00:21:19.380 --> 00:21:21.980
her i like i really really do but like something

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about her just like it feels either phony or

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like disingenuous i like i don't know how to

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describe it but i'm like i i can't get down with

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her i don't know I'm kind of uninterested in

00:21:36.359 --> 00:21:39.500
her and that's kind of my problem. It doesn't

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really have anything to do with her necessarily.

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I just am not that interested. It's like artificial

00:21:44.839 --> 00:21:47.960
sweetener. That's the best way for me to describe

00:21:47.960 --> 00:21:52.359
it. Okay. Yeah. It's like not quite what I want.

00:21:52.819 --> 00:21:59.200
Yeah. Fair. Okay. And then we head over to Kelsey's

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new apartment. i could have done without this

00:22:01.960 --> 00:22:05.420
scene entirely i like so kelsey's laying out

00:22:05.420 --> 00:22:07.400
of all laying out all of her like miss rhode

00:22:07.400 --> 00:22:13.779
island stuff and that to me it's like someone

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who like holds on to their trophies from like

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middle school and like is very proud of them

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and like i feel so bad for saying this because

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miss miss rhode island is probably a much bigger

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deal than like i'm making it out to be in my

00:22:24.579 --> 00:22:26.599
head it puts her in the running for miss america

00:22:26.599 --> 00:22:30.359
is that oh does it Yeah. She would have walked

00:22:30.359 --> 00:22:36.819
for Miss America. Okay. Well. But pageant girls

00:22:36.819 --> 00:22:41.180
scare the shit out of me. I agree. I'm like,

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I don't like this. I'm intimidated, honestly.

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It's not even an intimidation thing. It is like,

00:22:49.099 --> 00:22:52.859
I'm terrified because it's like, they get mean

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and they get nasty. It's like the same thing

00:22:54.980 --> 00:22:56.740
with drag queens that perform in pageants where

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it's like, i don't want it like pageant queens

00:23:01.089 --> 00:23:06.450
of any kind of ilk it does not matter i just

00:23:06.450 --> 00:23:11.009
feel they have a type of energy and it's a very

00:23:11.009 --> 00:23:14.869
cutthroat thing that like i would never recover

00:23:14.869 --> 00:23:17.690
if they decided they wanted to ruin me never

00:23:17.690 --> 00:23:26.130
i would just die but her laying out all this

00:23:26.130 --> 00:23:28.690
stuff like the way she did i feel like she's

00:23:28.690 --> 00:23:31.329
desperately trying to hold on to this identity

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and like i want to revisit this in a couple seasons

00:23:33.950 --> 00:23:37.450
because i have a feeling she's gonna talk to

00:23:37.450 --> 00:23:40.250
a therapist and she's gonna like because i do

00:23:40.250 --> 00:23:42.190
think and we get to this later but like i do

00:23:42.190 --> 00:23:45.910
think this is like going to go down as like up

00:23:45.910 --> 00:23:47.470
until this point one of the biggest accomplishments

00:23:47.470 --> 00:23:49.109
in her life and it's kind of like what do you

00:23:49.109 --> 00:23:52.539
do next And I want to see where she goes from

00:23:52.539 --> 00:23:53.920
here. Because, like, I think she's at a real

00:23:53.920 --> 00:23:56.500
jumping off point. And, like, she has an opportunity

00:23:56.500 --> 00:23:59.140
to be incredible. I don't want her to waste that.

00:24:00.779 --> 00:24:04.779
Yeah. I think she's, like, trying to find her

00:24:04.779 --> 00:24:09.319
identity still. Yeah, that's the vibe I got from

00:24:09.319 --> 00:24:12.180
her. Because she doesn't seem to know what she

00:24:12.180 --> 00:24:16.480
wants to do. Yeah. Yes. you know i mean landing

00:24:16.480 --> 00:24:18.460
on this platform is going to help her out a lot

00:24:18.460 --> 00:24:22.579
but she needs to utilize it for a certain goal

00:24:22.579 --> 00:24:26.259
i would say yeah it's the right open door that

00:24:26.259 --> 00:24:32.779
comes yeah i think it's relatable though for

00:24:32.779 --> 00:24:35.680
what it's worth i think she's relatable in the

00:24:35.680 --> 00:24:38.380
sense that like i don't know what i'm gonna do

00:24:38.380 --> 00:24:40.940
next and i'm trying to figure that out you know

00:24:42.569 --> 00:24:44.950
i guess i didn't think about it like that though

00:24:44.950 --> 00:24:48.650
and i i because i i i'm i'm excited to see where

00:24:48.650 --> 00:24:50.170
she goes today because like you could you can

00:24:50.170 --> 00:24:52.230
kind of see her where it's like i'm i'm separating

00:24:52.230 --> 00:24:54.529
from this guy that i spent 10 years with and

00:24:54.529 --> 00:24:59.289
i'm like figuring it out i i i'm excited to see

00:24:59.289 --> 00:25:00.869
where it goes to i guess like i guess i just

00:25:00.869 --> 00:25:03.230
didn't think about like this is an exciting time

00:25:03.230 --> 00:25:06.569
for her yeah like she could completely flip it

00:25:06.569 --> 00:25:10.609
and i can totally see myself like loving her

00:25:10.609 --> 00:25:14.539
eventually i don't dislike her like i want to

00:25:14.539 --> 00:25:17.099
be very clear about that i just see pageant girl

00:25:17.099 --> 00:25:23.180
fair fair um did you guys ever watch um like

00:25:23.180 --> 00:25:28.579
old new jersey from like it was very shortly

00:25:28.579 --> 00:25:31.599
after like caroline manzo left and there was

00:25:31.599 --> 00:25:33.500
that one season we don't really talk about with

00:25:33.500 --> 00:25:37.940
the twins and then like amber marchese kelsey's

00:25:37.940 --> 00:25:40.500
sister looks like amber marchese i could see

00:25:40.500 --> 00:25:43.359
that and it was a trigger for me because i hate

00:25:43.359 --> 00:25:45.819
her i hate her i hate that rotten husband of

00:25:45.819 --> 00:25:51.279
hers and i that that family is trash in my mind

00:25:51.279 --> 00:25:55.759
i i know i know we're not focusing on jersey

00:25:55.759 --> 00:25:59.460
but if there was one season that they would just

00:25:59.460 --> 00:26:02.400
delete out of like the real housewives of new

00:26:02.400 --> 00:26:05.880
jersey it would be that one oh my lord i know

00:26:05.880 --> 00:26:10.089
and like that because like that was we're gonna

00:26:10.089 --> 00:26:12.450
we're gonna go off on a tangent here like that

00:26:12.450 --> 00:26:16.230
was the one where dina manzo came back and we

00:26:16.230 --> 00:26:22.569
had we had gold there with dina manzo and that

00:26:22.569 --> 00:26:25.430
you want to talk about a wasted opportunity that

00:26:25.430 --> 00:26:28.309
season oh lord have mercy with like the sister

00:26:28.309 --> 00:26:30.309
the the twins going through the duncan donuts

00:26:30.309 --> 00:26:32.549
drive through like i don't i don't need it i

00:26:32.549 --> 00:26:39.420
don't want it i hate it but anyway It's like,

00:26:39.480 --> 00:26:41.339
you're not seeing trouble. You're seeing trouble.

00:26:41.539 --> 00:26:48.819
Shut up. Shut up. That's the worst tagline ever.

00:26:51.500 --> 00:26:55.839
So then Kelsey explains to her mom that her ex

00:26:55.839 --> 00:26:57.900
is paying the rent. And so she kind of talks

00:26:57.900 --> 00:27:01.740
about how she's dealing with this, like a divorce

00:27:01.740 --> 00:27:05.220
that had a prenup. i like how she's approaching

00:27:05.220 --> 00:27:07.319
because like she's being very smart about this

00:27:07.319 --> 00:27:09.859
like granted you you spent the last 10 years

00:27:09.859 --> 00:27:11.720
kind of just like being taken care of and like

00:27:11.720 --> 00:27:15.720
not setting yourself up for the next step but

00:27:15.720 --> 00:27:19.099
i also think like why would you if you're in

00:27:19.099 --> 00:27:21.180
the living in the lap of luxury you have drivers

00:27:21.180 --> 00:27:23.440
you have like a living housekeeper a living chef

00:27:23.440 --> 00:27:26.740
like i don't blame her yeah she she was like

00:27:26.740 --> 00:27:29.079
23 when she got with this guy i don't blame her

00:27:29.079 --> 00:27:33.359
like yeah you're not gonna like start saving

00:27:33.359 --> 00:27:37.059
money to set aside when you're that young I feel

00:27:37.059 --> 00:27:43.539
no not even a little bit um but also they we

00:27:43.539 --> 00:27:46.819
talked about this with in Atlanta with um one

00:27:46.819 --> 00:27:48.519
of the one of the moms like I don't remember

00:27:48.519 --> 00:27:50.819
which mom it might have been Angela's mom but

00:27:50.819 --> 00:27:54.480
they did this mom dirty with like some of the

00:27:54.480 --> 00:27:58.740
angles they put on her too because What the hell?

00:27:58.859 --> 00:28:01.920
Why do they keep doing that? It feels like everyone

00:28:01.920 --> 00:28:04.319
who comes in their house is all done up and then

00:28:04.319 --> 00:28:08.799
their moms are just like frumpy as hell. Come

00:28:08.799 --> 00:28:12.500
on. And her mom's not like an ugly woman. It's

00:28:12.500 --> 00:28:15.819
just like that outfit was bad. The camera angles

00:28:15.819 --> 00:28:18.539
were bad. I don't think either of the moms we're

00:28:18.539 --> 00:28:21.299
talking about are ugly. I think they're just,

00:28:21.359 --> 00:28:24.640
like, being done horribly dirty on national television.

00:28:25.119 --> 00:28:28.319
Yes. And how do you come back from that? Can

00:28:28.319 --> 00:28:30.660
you imagine if they did that to Wendy Osefo's

00:28:30.660 --> 00:28:33.400
mom? Oh. Oh, yeah, because they did talk about,

00:28:33.420 --> 00:28:35.319
like, Wendy Osefo's mom, like, potentially being

00:28:35.319 --> 00:28:36.759
a witch or something. You want to talk about

00:28:36.759 --> 00:28:38.359
her, like, taking up witchcraft just to, like,

00:28:38.380 --> 00:28:42.180
curse an entire series? And no one's going to

00:28:42.180 --> 00:28:47.630
be seeing nothing but ravens. But then Billy

00:28:47.630 --> 00:28:49.470
shows up to save the day and put the furniture

00:28:49.470 --> 00:28:52.910
together. And Billy's kind of hot. I like Billy.

00:28:53.549 --> 00:28:56.950
I can see it. I'm like, I'm into it. Emma knows

00:28:56.950 --> 00:28:59.349
my type. And like, she said the same thing when

00:28:59.349 --> 00:29:02.710
I, when I acknowledged how hot Joellen's husband

00:29:02.710 --> 00:29:06.509
is. I'm like, love him. Love him. I love a man

00:29:06.509 --> 00:29:12.130
that just looks like a man. So then we go over

00:29:12.130 --> 00:29:15.549
to Ashley's house. this was also kind of a throwaway

00:29:15.549 --> 00:29:18.569
scene too i i like ashley's son has cold induced

00:29:18.569 --> 00:29:22.849
asthma and was like doing the most intense inhaler

00:29:22.849 --> 00:29:24.789
situation i've ever seen in my life with like

00:29:24.789 --> 00:29:26.849
some vape coming out of her something i don't

00:29:26.849 --> 00:29:33.460
know a nebulizer what it was a nebulizer what

00:29:33.460 --> 00:29:37.400
is that my brother has had to use it kenny has

00:29:37.400 --> 00:29:41.420
one it's an as it's like an inhaler but you're

00:29:41.420 --> 00:29:46.140
like breathing in oxygen and albuterol through

00:29:46.140 --> 00:29:50.220
the mask and you do like a 20 minute treatment

00:29:50.220 --> 00:29:54.859
instead of just like a you know oh okay it's

00:29:54.859 --> 00:29:59.170
real I believe it's real. I saw it on the TV.

00:29:59.309 --> 00:30:03.170
I've never seen it in real life. It does seem

00:30:03.170 --> 00:30:11.450
dramatic for a cult. And then they do this scene

00:30:11.450 --> 00:30:14.650
felt very Secret Lives of Mormon Wives to me

00:30:14.650 --> 00:30:17.849
because they did the I'm going to do a little

00:30:17.849 --> 00:30:22.569
social media thing and you see her doing it and

00:30:23.079 --> 00:30:26.579
She talks about how she wants to get what's his

00:30:26.579 --> 00:30:29.160
face the the owner of Audrey's what's Kevin?

00:30:29.640 --> 00:30:31.680
What is it? It doesn't matter what his name is.

00:30:31.680 --> 00:30:34.279
But like, Ashley tries talks about how she wants

00:30:34.279 --> 00:30:36.680
him to do more of this because it's so much more

00:30:36.680 --> 00:30:39.339
lucrative than the coffee shop is. And I guess

00:30:39.339 --> 00:30:42.839
they have multiple social media deals every year

00:30:42.839 --> 00:30:46.579
that are more lucrative like than what he nets

00:30:46.579 --> 00:30:49.799
in a full year at Audrey's and I'm like, Oh,

00:30:51.309 --> 00:30:52.890
I don't think he's going to like hearing that

00:30:52.890 --> 00:30:54.650
on national TV. I think that's going to be a

00:30:54.650 --> 00:30:58.130
real kick in the balls for him. I feel like the

00:30:58.130 --> 00:31:00.369
way she said it though, like I'm not the biggest

00:31:00.369 --> 00:31:04.589
fan of Ashley on this franchise, but the way

00:31:04.589 --> 00:31:09.009
she, she said it was better her delivery. Like

00:31:09.009 --> 00:31:12.250
let's compare it to Amanda from the real house

00:31:12.250 --> 00:31:14.930
size of Beverly Hills. She's not emasculating.

00:31:14.930 --> 00:31:18.089
Yeah. It was way less than that. It was a better

00:31:18.089 --> 00:31:21.309
delivery. that's fair and i don't think she meant

00:31:21.309 --> 00:31:24.089
it to be mean i think it's like i'm coming at

00:31:24.089 --> 00:31:26.190
it from the perspective of like he's working

00:31:26.190 --> 00:31:28.769
i mean you can see he's like he cares about this

00:31:28.769 --> 00:31:30.950
place and like he's like doing like he's like

00:31:30.950 --> 00:31:32.829
behind the counter and he's like he cares a lot

00:31:32.829 --> 00:31:37.390
about it i think hearing that like just saying

00:31:37.390 --> 00:31:39.630
like oh you don't want me to care about something

00:31:39.630 --> 00:31:41.690
i've cared so much about but like i i get i think

00:31:41.690 --> 00:31:44.329
you're right i think it is like i mean at least

00:31:44.329 --> 00:31:46.890
it wasn't her saying um i make the money in my

00:31:46.890 --> 00:31:52.190
house like so Yeah. No, yeah. And I also, I've

00:31:52.190 --> 00:31:54.970
liked their relationship from the first episode.

00:31:55.029 --> 00:31:57.849
I feel like they feel like true partners to me.

00:31:58.009 --> 00:32:01.289
Yes. I feel like they seem happy together. Like,

00:32:01.289 --> 00:32:03.670
and you don't get that a lot on Housewives where

00:32:03.670 --> 00:32:07.029
they just seem genuinely happy together. There's

00:32:07.029 --> 00:32:10.009
love there. You can feel it. Oh, for sure. I

00:32:10.009 --> 00:32:12.509
feel like most relationships, even the ones that

00:32:12.509 --> 00:32:14.710
I think are real, I'm always, like, questioning,

00:32:14.809 --> 00:32:19.059
like... How do you guys really get along when

00:32:19.059 --> 00:32:22.599
the cameras turn off? But for them, you can tell

00:32:22.599 --> 00:32:26.839
that they've grown together, I think. Oh, yeah.

00:32:27.140 --> 00:32:31.579
Is it Jared? Is that his name, Jared? I feel

00:32:31.579 --> 00:32:32.660
like it's Jared. We're just going to call him

00:32:32.660 --> 00:32:40.839
Jared. It's fine. Computer, tell me. Then Joellen

00:32:40.839 --> 00:32:44.200
heads over to her grandpa's house, and they're

00:32:44.200 --> 00:32:47.019
like, they all like her and her sister and her

00:32:47.019 --> 00:32:49.079
mom show up to like clean out the house and it

00:32:49.079 --> 00:32:50.700
feels like it's going to be a super heavy scene

00:32:50.700 --> 00:32:52.220
because they're dealing with like the loss of

00:32:52.220 --> 00:32:54.359
the grandpa did you find it emma you were right

00:32:54.359 --> 00:32:57.680
it is jared look at me remembering a man's name

00:32:57.680 --> 00:33:07.099
good enough for me And, like, so I felt like

00:33:07.099 --> 00:33:08.559
this scene was going to be super, super heavy.

00:33:08.680 --> 00:33:10.700
And it ended up being super heavy for a very

00:33:10.700 --> 00:33:12.920
different reason than what I initially thought

00:33:12.920 --> 00:33:18.400
it was going to be. So they go in. I'm just going

00:33:18.400 --> 00:33:20.059
to tell you right now, I don't like Jolin's mom.

00:33:20.180 --> 00:33:24.740
I do not like this woman because she is triggering

00:33:24.740 --> 00:33:29.160
to me in a way that, like, I don't know that

00:33:29.160 --> 00:33:31.480
I can put words to. I'm just like, oh, you're

00:33:31.480 --> 00:33:36.069
a bad mother. I don't think you would like your,

00:33:36.109 --> 00:33:39.849
like at least one of your daughters. So they

00:33:39.849 --> 00:33:42.769
go up to the bedroom, which I guess used to be

00:33:42.769 --> 00:33:44.490
Joellen's bedroom when she lived with her grandpa.

00:33:44.569 --> 00:33:48.269
And Joellen asks her mom if she remembers taking

00:33:48.269 --> 00:33:50.970
the sister home and leaving Joellen with her

00:33:50.970 --> 00:33:55.529
grandparents for another two weeks. This is something

00:33:55.529 --> 00:33:58.089
where, and I wholeheartedly believe, and I think

00:33:58.089 --> 00:33:59.650
I put this somewhere in the notes later, I do

00:33:59.650 --> 00:34:01.630
not think they talked about this before they

00:34:01.630 --> 00:34:04.049
went into the scene. I think this was all sprung

00:34:04.049 --> 00:34:07.009
on the mom. And I think this was the first time

00:34:07.009 --> 00:34:08.889
her mom was hearing some of this information.

00:34:09.449 --> 00:34:13.309
And you could tell when Joellen was saying it,

00:34:13.329 --> 00:34:14.769
she was like, this is something that like I've

00:34:14.769 --> 00:34:16.670
carried with me for a while. And like the mom

00:34:16.670 --> 00:34:19.250
didn't take it seriously. And like, I felt so

00:34:19.250 --> 00:34:24.460
bad. Yeah. If the mom knew that that was going

00:34:24.460 --> 00:34:26.699
to be the topic conversation, she wouldn't have

00:34:26.699 --> 00:34:30.400
been in that scene. I think. I think it was because

00:34:30.400 --> 00:34:32.920
she doesn't want to. That's why her reaction

00:34:32.920 --> 00:34:35.719
was so non -serious, because she doesn't know

00:34:35.719 --> 00:34:40.400
how to. Yeah. Okay. And I do think that was orchestrated

00:34:40.400 --> 00:34:42.400
by Joellen. I was going to say the same thing.

00:34:42.480 --> 00:34:46.380
I think Joellen said, like, probably lied and

00:34:46.380 --> 00:34:47.260
said they were going to talk about something

00:34:47.260 --> 00:34:48.920
different and then confronted her on camera.

00:34:51.760 --> 00:34:54.900
i don't i don't know if i blame her but like

00:34:54.900 --> 00:34:58.780
so here's the thing the chiropractor lady on

00:34:58.780 --> 00:35:03.000
uh potomac what was mia mia they did this to

00:35:03.000 --> 00:35:05.980
me as mom were like they basically sat her down

00:35:05.980 --> 00:35:08.440
and mia was like remember when you were addicted

00:35:08.440 --> 00:35:11.920
to drugs and like that felt very different to

00:35:11.920 --> 00:35:15.670
me because like i was like oh I feel like this

00:35:15.670 --> 00:35:18.750
mom has tried to make things right. I don't know.

00:35:19.170 --> 00:35:22.550
That did feel like a very intricate situation

00:35:22.550 --> 00:35:26.510
we weren't getting the mom's full story about.

00:35:26.610 --> 00:35:28.690
Not that she wasn't right for any of that, but

00:35:28.690 --> 00:35:30.949
it feels like there are details we don't know.

00:35:31.429 --> 00:35:36.289
Exactly. This one felt different to me. I felt

00:35:36.289 --> 00:35:40.369
like Joellen said, I'm going to put this on camera

00:35:40.369 --> 00:35:42.570
because this is the only way I'm ever going to...

00:35:43.269 --> 00:35:46.730
come home on this and like figure it out I think

00:35:46.730 --> 00:35:48.570
Mia needed a storyline I don't think Joellen's

00:35:48.570 --> 00:35:50.329
doing this for a storyline I think Joellen's

00:35:50.329 --> 00:35:52.170
doing this to heal and I think that's the difference

00:35:52.170 --> 00:35:56.469
but seeing it on camera and like because you

00:35:56.469 --> 00:35:58.309
could oh yeah I literally put this like she her

00:35:58.309 --> 00:36:00.190
mom had no idea this conversation was going to

00:36:00.190 --> 00:36:04.289
happen and this like the face that the mom made

00:36:04.289 --> 00:36:06.329
when Joellen was like I feel like I'm not nice

00:36:06.329 --> 00:36:07.849
and you were supposed to teach me how to be nice

00:36:07.849 --> 00:36:11.010
and like I don't like the way I am because of

00:36:11.480 --> 00:36:14.460
because of you for like for the lack of a better

00:36:14.460 --> 00:36:17.199
way of saying it that's where I started to feel

00:36:17.199 --> 00:36:19.840
bad for the mom and then this is where I stopped

00:36:19.840 --> 00:36:23.119
feeling bad for the mom where she goes she goes

00:36:23.119 --> 00:36:26.099
is it my fault that you exhibited some of these

00:36:26.099 --> 00:36:29.380
behaviors and like the mom like starts to like

00:36:29.380 --> 00:36:31.460
play victim a little bit and then she goes well

00:36:31.460 --> 00:36:34.619
a lot of the time I just had too much on my plate

00:36:34.619 --> 00:36:36.960
and it was overwhelming and I was like I hate

00:36:36.960 --> 00:36:40.480
you I have nothing for you. I was like, because

00:36:40.480 --> 00:36:43.059
you don't get to say that as a mom. Like, yeah,

00:36:43.139 --> 00:36:45.440
I don't know. I didn't like that. Especially

00:36:45.440 --> 00:36:49.500
like, yeah, I don't know. It's it's it just felt

00:36:49.500 --> 00:36:51.019
like there's a lot of lack of accountability

00:36:51.019 --> 00:36:55.639
on her part. 100%. And is it your fault that

00:36:55.639 --> 00:36:58.920
your child is exhibiting attention seeking behaviors?

00:36:59.059 --> 00:37:02.079
Yes. Yes, it is. Yes, it is. Because your child

00:37:02.079 --> 00:37:06.320
is desperate for attention from you. it's that

00:37:06.320 --> 00:37:08.760
simple years of your child like who else could

00:37:08.760 --> 00:37:12.139
be at fault for the behavior of your baby like

00:37:12.139 --> 00:37:16.420
what do you mean and like i just felt like i

00:37:16.420 --> 00:37:19.039
would have had more respect for her if her mom

00:37:19.039 --> 00:37:21.079
instead of just like blowing it off was like

00:37:21.079 --> 00:37:25.289
hey yeah that was fucked up and I'm sorry and

00:37:25.289 --> 00:37:28.170
I'm so proud that you are the woman you've become

00:37:28.170 --> 00:37:31.150
today and they moved on like that I would feel

00:37:31.150 --> 00:37:34.070
differently but the way she was like oh girl

00:37:34.070 --> 00:37:37.989
or even something like because my dad has said

00:37:37.989 --> 00:37:40.829
something similar to me like where I had a weird

00:37:40.829 --> 00:37:42.909
childhood and my dad was like I didn't know how

00:37:42.909 --> 00:37:45.289
to be a dad like if she would have said something

00:37:45.289 --> 00:37:47.590
like that resembled that maybe like I could have

00:37:47.590 --> 00:37:50.210
been okay with that but I'm like yeah you're

00:37:50.210 --> 00:37:54.539
overwhelmed because everyone is overwhelmed yeah

00:37:54.539 --> 00:37:58.880
come on yes and your daughter is like begging

00:37:58.880 --> 00:38:03.239
for you to apologize yes she did so much and

00:38:03.239 --> 00:38:05.519
nothing at the same time like if she literally

00:38:05.519 --> 00:38:08.920
just apologized i think that would have made

00:38:08.920 --> 00:38:14.780
a like a big impact and i don't think we ever

00:38:14.780 --> 00:38:17.320
got an apology did we like i know we got that

00:38:17.320 --> 00:38:25.000
i'm sorry anyway okay Perfect. But the scene

00:38:25.000 --> 00:38:27.179
wrapped up in kind of a sweet place where like,

00:38:27.199 --> 00:38:30.099
and I think most of the work was done on Joellen

00:38:30.099 --> 00:38:32.360
and the sister's part. Like, I think they were

00:38:32.360 --> 00:38:34.639
like, come on, mom, like, let's, let's get you

00:38:34.639 --> 00:38:35.960
to where you don't look like a complete monster

00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:40.159
on camera. And Joellen was like, let's build

00:38:40.159 --> 00:38:42.260
from here. And like, it ended in kind of a sweet

00:38:42.260 --> 00:38:45.389
place. I'm glad that Joellen got that because

00:38:45.389 --> 00:38:47.489
like she did tell us in a confessional, like

00:38:47.489 --> 00:38:49.230
she's been waiting to hear some of that her entire

00:38:49.230 --> 00:38:53.010
life. So like, if Joellen's happy, I'm happy.

00:38:53.110 --> 00:38:56.909
I'll say that. It just makes me sad. But that's

00:38:56.909 --> 00:38:59.650
probably because I have kids. Yeah. But like,

00:38:59.690 --> 00:39:03.750
two things. One, can you imagine hearing that

00:39:03.750 --> 00:39:05.909
from your child being like, I don't like the

00:39:05.909 --> 00:39:09.829
way I am because of you like that? I don't know

00:39:09.829 --> 00:39:11.289
that you can come back from that. That's hard

00:39:11.289 --> 00:39:15.090
to hear. I wasn't going to say this because I

00:39:15.090 --> 00:39:19.110
don't actually feel this way, but I do think

00:39:19.110 --> 00:39:23.050
it's possible. Joellen's mom heard that from

00:39:23.050 --> 00:39:26.690
her and it really cut her deeply because she

00:39:26.690 --> 00:39:30.630
knows she kind of ignored Joellen, for lack of

00:39:30.630 --> 00:39:33.670
a better term, when she was growing up. And she

00:39:33.670 --> 00:39:38.730
had to kind of not be serious and keep it up

00:39:38.730 --> 00:39:42.449
and keep it light or else she would have... exploded

00:39:42.449 --> 00:39:45.010
like really let it out and she was on camera

00:39:45.010 --> 00:39:49.909
I didn't really get that vibe but I can see that

00:39:49.909 --> 00:39:52.170
like I feel like if someone really genuinely

00:39:52.170 --> 00:39:55.150
hurt my feelings on camera I would also kind

00:39:55.150 --> 00:39:57.969
of laugh it off like shut down a little bit almost

00:39:57.969 --> 00:39:59.750
and it's like I have to give you this reaction

00:39:59.750 --> 00:40:02.369
because if I give you the real one like none

00:40:02.369 --> 00:40:06.269
of us are coming back for me yeah I don't I don't

00:40:06.269 --> 00:40:08.829
really see that happening but I feel like I can

00:40:08.829 --> 00:40:14.489
see How that should happen. I would accept that

00:40:14.489 --> 00:40:17.909
as an explanation, sure. And then, thing two,

00:40:18.070 --> 00:40:21.710
the way Joellen's sister was sitting on that

00:40:21.710 --> 00:40:26.289
porch looked so uncomfortable to me. Like, were

00:40:26.289 --> 00:40:29.170
her, like, legs, like, folded under her? Like,

00:40:29.170 --> 00:40:35.590
I... It's not numb. Like, looking at it, I'm

00:40:35.590 --> 00:40:38.250
like, oh, my God, my legs are falling asleep.

00:40:38.489 --> 00:40:52.929
Like, what is happening? so then we get a Liz

00:40:52.929 --> 00:40:57.550
and Dolores scene I like we've talked a little

00:40:57.550 --> 00:40:59.869
bit about we haven't but like we've heard a little

00:40:59.869 --> 00:41:03.760
bit about how as the season went on and like

00:41:03.760 --> 00:41:06.119
as filming went on they realized dolores didn't

00:41:06.119 --> 00:41:08.340
need as much of a role as like they initially

00:41:08.340 --> 00:41:10.780
thought she was going to because the all of these

00:41:10.780 --> 00:41:14.460
women ended up being so strong i love every opportunity

00:41:14.460 --> 00:41:17.519
we get to see dolores catania though i that what

00:41:17.519 --> 00:41:23.639
a woman i love her so much i love her i do yeah

00:41:23.639 --> 00:41:27.519
and like this felt like kind of a throwaway scene

00:41:27.519 --> 00:41:29.739
like where it was just like oh we're like soft

00:41:29.739 --> 00:41:32.010
launching like another one of our like product

00:41:32.010 --> 00:41:34.150
spinoffs or whatever like every housewife does

00:41:34.150 --> 00:41:38.369
um but we find out that liz and dolores are developing

00:41:38.369 --> 00:41:42.389
a supplement line in the um cannabis space to

00:41:42.389 --> 00:41:44.349
help women who are experiencing menopause symptoms

00:41:44.349 --> 00:41:50.630
and i i was really impressed by this like because

00:41:50.630 --> 00:41:53.690
number one you i I don't look at Dolores and

00:41:53.690 --> 00:41:55.710
Liz and think, like, they're old enough to have

00:41:55.710 --> 00:41:58.690
been going through menopause. Like, I don't know

00:41:58.690 --> 00:42:01.130
what age that, like, on average that happens.

00:42:01.409 --> 00:42:04.070
It's so much earlier than you think. When does

00:42:04.070 --> 00:42:06.590
it start? Perimenopause, which is, like, the

00:42:06.590 --> 00:42:08.969
beginning stages of, like, you're starting to

00:42:08.969 --> 00:42:15.630
get there. Early 50s. Really? Yes. I thought

00:42:15.630 --> 00:42:18.730
this was a thing that started, like, at the earliest,

00:42:18.769 --> 00:42:23.349
like, 65. So like full blown menopause is probably

00:42:23.349 --> 00:42:27.650
closer to 65, but I guess starting at like late

00:42:27.650 --> 00:42:30.809
forties, early fifties, you start getting like

00:42:30.809 --> 00:42:36.110
hot flashes and like fits of rage and stuff like

00:42:36.110 --> 00:42:43.630
that. Sure. I had no idea. It's crazy. I had

00:42:43.630 --> 00:42:48.420
no idea that started either. I obviously I didn't

00:42:48.420 --> 00:42:51.400
either. But like, Dolores and Liz start to like

00:42:51.400 --> 00:42:53.599
unpack their experiences with some of these symptoms.

00:42:53.639 --> 00:42:55.639
And like, I was also really impressed because

00:42:55.639 --> 00:42:57.099
like, this is something that you don't really

00:42:57.099 --> 00:42:59.719
hear a lot about, like, especially on Housewives,

00:42:59.780 --> 00:43:02.380
where like, I think a lot of these women, and

00:43:02.380 --> 00:43:04.960
this is more so a problem, like on the West Coast

00:43:04.960 --> 00:43:07.079
with Housewives, but like, I think it's a it's

00:43:07.079 --> 00:43:11.159
a problem. Universally, we're like, society and

00:43:11.869 --> 00:43:13.909
women especially feel like they have to cling

00:43:13.909 --> 00:43:16.650
to youth because like when you start aging like

00:43:16.650 --> 00:43:18.389
that's where you like start to lose value right

00:43:18.389 --> 00:43:21.909
and they started talking about like some of the

00:43:21.909 --> 00:43:24.150
real stuff that's happening and I was just really

00:43:24.150 --> 00:43:27.869
impressed by them and I I know Liz like makes

00:43:27.869 --> 00:43:30.809
a couple of missteps um later this season and

00:43:30.809 --> 00:43:32.389
that's fine I'll accept it for her because I

00:43:32.389 --> 00:43:34.730
still like her I love these two women I love

00:43:34.730 --> 00:43:36.269
their friendship I love everything about them

00:43:36.269 --> 00:43:41.300
and I love that they are like ambassadors for

00:43:41.300 --> 00:43:45.820
uh menopause camp oh there we go where did he

00:43:45.820 --> 00:43:51.219
go i was like does he not want to hear how much

00:43:51.219 --> 00:43:58.320
i love doris dolores and liz he's like actually

00:43:58.320 --> 00:44:05.079
i don't like liz as much as you do that is so

00:44:05.079 --> 00:44:08.110
funny but I enjoyed that scene. I didn't think

00:44:08.110 --> 00:44:11.110
it was a throwaway scene, but I was like... No,

00:44:11.150 --> 00:44:13.170
I was so happy it was there because you're right,

00:44:13.269 --> 00:44:17.210
especially menopause in particular affects pretty

00:44:17.210 --> 00:44:21.670
much every woman as they age. You never hear

00:44:21.670 --> 00:44:24.690
anyone talk about it. Think about how many times

00:44:24.690 --> 00:44:27.309
we talk about erectile dysfunction happening

00:44:27.309 --> 00:44:29.769
in men as they get older. But no one talks about

00:44:29.769 --> 00:44:32.769
menopause, which actually is rocking you on a

00:44:32.769 --> 00:44:36.309
daily basis, which is crazy. So I was... so happy

00:44:36.309 --> 00:44:37.710
they were talking about it and I think they're

00:44:37.710 --> 00:44:39.550
the perfect women to talk about it because they're

00:44:39.550 --> 00:44:45.110
like confident and hot yeah well and that's the

00:44:45.110 --> 00:44:50.489
thing too is like Dolores and Liz are both like

00:44:50.489 --> 00:44:53.449
just obnoxiously attractive and I'm like you

00:44:53.449 --> 00:44:56.230
don't look at them and think like these are women

00:44:56.230 --> 00:44:59.070
who are dealing with menopause but like they

00:44:59.070 --> 00:45:01.349
are like that's the reality of it like and I'm

00:45:01.349 --> 00:45:03.969
glad that you know I'm glad that hot people have

00:45:03.969 --> 00:45:07.960
a voice Yeah, whoever their plastic surgeon is,

00:45:08.119 --> 00:45:12.539
like, like, does an amazing job on, you know,

00:45:12.559 --> 00:45:15.719
on both of them. What I love, especially Dolores,

00:45:15.760 --> 00:45:18.900
is that following her journey, like, since she

00:45:18.900 --> 00:45:22.119
started, not even when, because she was featured

00:45:22.119 --> 00:45:24.360
on the show a couple times before she became

00:45:24.360 --> 00:45:28.440
full -time housewife, as she was when her kids

00:45:28.440 --> 00:45:32.440
were little. It's still... kept her like she

00:45:32.440 --> 00:45:34.300
doesn't look like a different person it's still

00:45:34.300 --> 00:45:37.860
her but it's like youthful and like keeping up

00:45:37.860 --> 00:45:41.400
she's a beautiful woman like yeah i love a woman

00:45:41.400 --> 00:45:44.119
who like it's a maintenance thing she's like

00:45:44.119 --> 00:45:47.179
maintaining her natural face and just getting

00:45:47.179 --> 00:45:52.949
it like you know redoing gravity and also I feel

00:45:52.949 --> 00:45:54.849
like I just need to say, those are, like, two

00:45:54.849 --> 00:45:57.150
examples of women who are, like, you're not,

00:45:57.190 --> 00:45:58.889
like, oh, my God, they look so good for their

00:45:58.889 --> 00:46:02.210
age. No, no, no. No, they're just hot. Period.

00:46:03.849 --> 00:46:07.690
Like, and I, like, I don't know what Liz looked

00:46:07.690 --> 00:46:09.630
like when she was younger, but, like, I remember

00:46:09.630 --> 00:46:12.469
seeing, I mean, Dolores was on, like, was not

00:46:12.469 --> 00:46:14.750
a friend of, but, like, I know she's Caroline

00:46:14.750 --> 00:46:17.590
Manzo's friend from, like, very, very, very early

00:46:17.590 --> 00:46:19.210
on. And, like, I remember seeing her in, like,

00:46:19.210 --> 00:46:23.079
season one or two of New Jersey. always looked

00:46:23.079 --> 00:46:27.920
like herself but like like she's she we've seen

00:46:27.920 --> 00:46:30.139
pictures of her like when it's like we do flashbacks

00:46:30.139 --> 00:46:31.880
like talking about when she was like a correctional

00:46:31.880 --> 00:46:34.840
officer at the jail or like whatever she's always

00:46:34.840 --> 00:46:39.079
been just obnoxiously hot like oh it's so annoying

00:46:39.079 --> 00:46:42.300
how hot she is like what a woman what an absolute

00:46:42.300 --> 00:46:46.619
woman not just her personality too it's just

00:46:46.619 --> 00:46:49.550
like She has an attractive personality. Yeah,

00:46:49.690 --> 00:46:51.670
you want to talk about someone who's not ever

00:46:51.670 --> 00:46:55.590
putting on a show for anyone ever. God, I love

00:46:55.590 --> 00:46:58.269
her. She has never once said something she didn't

00:46:58.269 --> 00:47:02.389
mean with her chest. I know. And, like, even

00:47:02.389 --> 00:47:04.769
that scene, we've talked about this before, but

00:47:04.769 --> 00:47:07.969
that scene with Margaret Josephs where I don't

00:47:07.969 --> 00:47:11.070
know if Margaret actually, I assume Margaret

00:47:11.070 --> 00:47:13.530
actually said whatever, like, she said, she said.

00:47:14.050 --> 00:47:19.210
But my... Just base level assumption is that

00:47:19.210 --> 00:47:21.409
Dolores either doesn't remember hearing it or

00:47:21.409 --> 00:47:24.070
heard something and like didn't think anything

00:47:24.070 --> 00:47:27.130
of it. And like when she's confronted with that

00:47:27.130 --> 00:47:31.190
reality, just start screaming, you lying cunt

00:47:31.190 --> 00:47:36.730
at Margaret. And I'm like, I would even accept

00:47:36.730 --> 00:47:38.829
that from Dolores. I would accept being on the

00:47:38.829 --> 00:47:42.500
receiving end of that. I wish she would yell

00:47:42.500 --> 00:47:49.760
at me. Oh, my God. It needs some privacy. Oh,

00:47:49.860 --> 00:47:55.119
Lord. But then Rula and Brian are getting ready

00:47:55.119 --> 00:47:58.699
to host a double date dinner with Alicia and

00:47:58.699 --> 00:48:02.260
Billy. And I hate Brian. I'm just going to say

00:48:02.260 --> 00:48:04.559
that. I hate Brian. I hate everything about Brian.

00:48:04.659 --> 00:48:08.619
I think he's a trash man. I think that I don't

00:48:08.619 --> 00:48:15.480
like. anything about him but um yeah he's just

00:48:15.480 --> 00:48:20.039
he's he's yucky the sleaze yes yeah yucky like

00:48:20.039 --> 00:48:27.599
sleazy yeah yeah uh but he um he doesn't deserve

00:48:27.599 --> 00:48:29.400
Rula I'm just gonna go I'm just gonna start by

00:48:29.400 --> 00:48:33.579
saying that Rula is obnoxiously hot also like

00:48:33.579 --> 00:48:35.820
she's someone I would put in that same realm

00:48:35.820 --> 00:48:38.059
of like Dolores and Liz where I'm just like you're

00:48:38.059 --> 00:48:40.659
i just want to look at you like you're so pretty

00:48:40.659 --> 00:48:43.800
and like you're so like your personality is very

00:48:43.800 --> 00:48:48.039
easy i like all of it but um they're like getting

00:48:48.039 --> 00:48:50.159
ready for dinner alicia and billy show up and

00:48:50.159 --> 00:48:52.440
it's wildly awkward because alicia knows that

00:48:52.440 --> 00:48:54.719
brian was literally just running around on rula

00:48:54.719 --> 00:49:00.179
two weeks before this and like i love where she

00:49:00.179 --> 00:49:01.679
comes in she's like i know what you did last

00:49:01.679 --> 00:49:03.639
weekend like i have it written all over my face

00:49:03.639 --> 00:49:07.920
i'm like i love you so much um thank you because

00:49:07.920 --> 00:49:11.059
i would not show up to someone's house knowing

00:49:11.059 --> 00:49:14.980
that and just like not say anything i don't like

00:49:14.980 --> 00:49:18.860
how is she gonna say that it kind of gave me

00:49:18.860 --> 00:49:22.480
vibes of that scene from the real house of atlanta

00:49:22.480 --> 00:49:25.400
when the producers were wanting cynthia to tell

00:49:25.400 --> 00:49:28.139
fade or something and she was like taking forever

00:49:28.139 --> 00:49:33.800
because she's not good at that So, yeah. Yeah.

00:49:33.960 --> 00:49:38.000
I was glad she was just like, hey. But she never

00:49:38.000 --> 00:49:40.059
said it. That was the thing. She never said it

00:49:40.059 --> 00:49:43.679
to Rula. Like, we only got it from her in the

00:49:43.679 --> 00:49:51.000
confessional. Oh, you're right. Yeah. Okay. Like,

00:49:51.000 --> 00:49:53.940
because that was the thing. She really never

00:49:53.940 --> 00:49:57.000
said it out loud there, did she? No, she didn't.

00:49:57.420 --> 00:49:59.800
How did she get through that dinner? because

00:49:59.800 --> 00:50:01.460
how are you gonna sit there and just be like

00:50:01.460 --> 00:50:04.340
here's the thing i think there's a lot of like

00:50:04.340 --> 00:50:06.599
producer magic happening there but like because

00:50:06.599 --> 00:50:09.159
you can tell there were moments of that dinner

00:50:09.159 --> 00:50:13.000
where it was like painfully uncomfortable but

00:50:13.000 --> 00:50:15.800
like i thought it was just tense because they

00:50:15.800 --> 00:50:20.980
all know that he's no no i think joellen is actually

00:50:20.980 --> 00:50:24.559
the only one who has actually said to brian i

00:50:24.559 --> 00:50:26.679
know what you're doing you're a liar you're a

00:50:26.679 --> 00:50:30.630
cheater and i hate you and everyone else is just

00:50:30.630 --> 00:50:33.550
like la la la la la so weird and uncomfortable

00:50:33.550 --> 00:50:38.989
but um but yeah no like so she never says it

00:50:38.989 --> 00:50:41.250
but like i mean you're not gonna go into someone's

00:50:41.250 --> 00:50:43.329
house and like ruin the entire dinner so like

00:50:43.329 --> 00:50:46.690
i i don't blame you oh don't invite me to your

00:50:46.690 --> 00:50:48.949
house if you've told me that your husband is

00:50:48.949 --> 00:50:54.210
cheating on you i think maybe like the the producer's

00:50:54.210 --> 00:50:58.170
plan was to have her say something at that dinner

00:50:58.170 --> 00:51:00.829
but then um her husband was like i don't want

00:51:00.829 --> 00:51:03.030
to sit through this i don't want i don't want

00:51:03.030 --> 00:51:06.510
i don't i will yeah probably get on board with

00:51:06.510 --> 00:51:10.389
that theory um because billy does seem like the

00:51:10.389 --> 00:51:17.519
guy that's like honey not tonight But we also

00:51:17.519 --> 00:51:20.340
like go on to like hearing Brian talk a lot.

00:51:20.460 --> 00:51:22.380
Like Brian feels like he's the kind of guy that

00:51:22.380 --> 00:51:24.380
like sucks all the oxygen out of a room where

00:51:24.380 --> 00:51:26.340
he's like, first of all, he's a podiatrist. I

00:51:26.340 --> 00:51:28.280
want to, I want to say, start by saying he is

00:51:28.280 --> 00:51:30.880
a, he's a foot doctor, which there's, there is

00:51:30.880 --> 00:51:32.159
a need for that. There's nothing wrong with that,

00:51:32.199 --> 00:51:34.059
but he's selling Ozempic and Botox out of his

00:51:34.059 --> 00:51:38.219
podiatry practice. Why? Number one, like that

00:51:38.219 --> 00:51:41.900
makes, it's like, it's, it's, I don't, I don't

00:51:41.900 --> 00:51:49.199
get it. Number two, we find out. Maybe. But you're

00:51:49.199 --> 00:51:56.320
lighter on your feet. But we find out he's using,

00:51:56.380 --> 00:51:58.340
he's dipping into his own inventory and he's

00:51:58.340 --> 00:52:01.480
microdosing Ozempic and then he's taking steroids

00:52:01.480 --> 00:52:03.739
when he's getting too skinny. And I'm like, I

00:52:03.739 --> 00:52:08.480
hate you. I hate everything about you. And you

00:52:08.480 --> 00:52:16.809
just stop talking. And like, What really got

00:52:16.809 --> 00:52:21.190
me is he has been to medical school. He graduated

00:52:21.190 --> 00:52:26.610
from medical school. Yes. I ended up tuning him

00:52:26.610 --> 00:52:31.030
out, if I'm being so real with you. Yeah, I agree

00:52:31.030 --> 00:52:33.389
with you on that because I don't want to see

00:52:33.389 --> 00:52:37.469
him. It just gives me the icks. Is that true?

00:52:38.530 --> 00:52:43.440
It's not the real working husband. Okay. Real

00:52:43.440 --> 00:52:48.920
housewives. Get out of here. But what gave me

00:52:48.920 --> 00:52:51.139
the bigger ick, though, is, like, he gets a text,

00:52:51.199 --> 00:52:53.500
he looks at his phone, and then immediately looks

00:52:53.500 --> 00:52:55.780
guilty. So you know it's the mistress. And what

00:52:55.780 --> 00:52:57.739
we have since found out about this mistress is

00:52:57.739 --> 00:53:01.719
she's desperate to get an ounce of notoriety.

00:53:01.800 --> 00:53:04.960
Like, she has, like, in her Instagram bio, like,

00:53:05.019 --> 00:53:07.280
she's, like, talking about how she's, like, dating

00:53:07.280 --> 00:53:12.000
him. Like, it's... She's wild. Like... And it

00:53:12.000 --> 00:53:15.179
makes me uncomfortable. But then I was like,

00:53:15.219 --> 00:53:17.059
oh, nothing's going to top how I feel about this

00:53:17.059 --> 00:53:19.159
man right now. And then he comes back to the

00:53:19.159 --> 00:53:21.820
table after leaving to text his mistress and

00:53:21.820 --> 00:53:24.400
tells a story about how when he met Rula, he

00:53:24.400 --> 00:53:27.679
told the bartender for every drink that I have,

00:53:27.780 --> 00:53:30.400
give her a double shot. And I'm like, maybe we

00:53:30.400 --> 00:53:32.260
don't ever repeat that out loud because that

00:53:32.260 --> 00:53:34.159
is something to be ashamed of. You could have

00:53:34.159 --> 00:53:36.949
died with that. You could have died with that.

00:53:37.070 --> 00:53:39.510
Should have taken that to your grave. Like, and

00:53:39.510 --> 00:53:42.030
Rula, if you ever hear this, Rula, I want you

00:53:42.030 --> 00:53:44.489
to know you are better than him. You deserve

00:53:44.489 --> 00:53:46.409
better than him. I just want you to know that.

00:53:46.789 --> 00:53:50.630
I think also with the, because like she's Lebanese

00:53:50.630 --> 00:53:52.929
and like, like speaking from my culture, like

00:53:52.929 --> 00:53:57.829
about that stuff. I know that. And I totally

00:53:57.829 --> 00:54:00.679
like. that mentality needs to be out of there

00:54:00.679 --> 00:54:03.219
it's like oh if your husband is like going outside

00:54:03.219 --> 00:54:05.260
of the home and doing stuff there's something

00:54:05.260 --> 00:54:08.699
missing inside the house so it's blaming the

00:54:08.699 --> 00:54:11.199
woman and i'm like because she said something

00:54:11.199 --> 00:54:14.360
on there that was like oh uh this is like my

00:54:14.360 --> 00:54:16.159
i don't know if it's her second marriage and

00:54:16.159 --> 00:54:18.860
like culture is like strict on that and she's

00:54:18.860 --> 00:54:21.440
really trying her best to like make it work but

00:54:21.440 --> 00:54:24.019
i'm like okay but you were you raised here like

00:54:24.019 --> 00:54:27.980
you that does not like you should get that out

00:54:27.980 --> 00:54:30.400
of your mind because that's not even true. Like,

00:54:30.400 --> 00:54:36.159
like I, you know, I don't know. Like you have

00:54:36.159 --> 00:54:39.460
this man with only the worst of intentions, the

00:54:39.460 --> 00:54:44.079
worst reputation. And like, I don't think there's

00:54:44.079 --> 00:54:47.840
anyone on this earth who is really deep down

00:54:47.840 --> 00:54:53.679
going to blame you for leaving. My honest to

00:54:53.679 --> 00:54:57.369
God question for like, just to, to what Cam said

00:54:57.369 --> 00:55:00.349
is what, what does Rula think she's missing?

00:55:00.670 --> 00:55:02.710
Cause number one, she's smart. Number two, I

00:55:02.710 --> 00:55:04.730
mean, you realize an Emma and I come from the

00:55:04.730 --> 00:55:06.989
financial world. She, she runs her own financial

00:55:06.989 --> 00:55:09.949
planning firm. Like she's smart. Like, cause

00:55:09.949 --> 00:55:12.250
you, you can't do that and be an idiot. Number

00:55:12.250 --> 00:55:18.329
three, she's as hot as the day is long. And she's

00:55:18.329 --> 00:55:21.010
got money. Like she's got her own money. What,

00:55:21.050 --> 00:55:25.139
what is missing? nothing the only thing i could

00:55:25.139 --> 00:55:28.179
think of is probably her kids she's trying to

00:55:28.179 --> 00:55:32.980
probably make it as try as much as possible for

00:55:32.980 --> 00:55:38.380
her kids but that it's just that's it's not a

00:55:38.380 --> 00:55:40.820
good it feels like the right thing is not the

00:55:40.820 --> 00:55:44.010
right thing yeah That sucks. We've seen that

00:55:44.010 --> 00:55:48.449
so many times. We have. You know what I respect

00:55:48.449 --> 00:55:53.829
about this franchise, though, is that as much

00:55:53.829 --> 00:55:55.530
as I hate seeing the husband, because I really

00:55:55.530 --> 00:56:01.150
do, it's more about her husband is absolutely

00:56:01.150 --> 00:56:05.449
awful and she does not deserve the treatment

00:56:05.449 --> 00:56:07.550
that she's getting. She deserves a million times

00:56:07.550 --> 00:56:12.849
better. It's about that more than I feel like

00:56:12.849 --> 00:56:15.750
it's about the girls attacking her for it. And

00:56:15.750 --> 00:56:21.250
I appreciate you watching that. Yeah. Any other

00:56:21.250 --> 00:56:25.030
city that I've seen, unfortunately, would be

00:56:25.030 --> 00:56:27.269
given that information and start attacking Rula

00:56:27.269 --> 00:56:30.869
left, right, and center. Instead of being like,

00:56:31.150 --> 00:56:37.670
I hate this guy. Yeah. I don't know. That's hard.

00:56:39.779 --> 00:56:43.000
But, oh, oh, and then, okay, so then we head

00:56:43.000 --> 00:56:46.699
over to Rosie's house with Kelsey. This is what

00:56:46.699 --> 00:56:53.519
Cam showed up for. Here we go. So I want to start

00:56:53.519 --> 00:56:55.400
by saying, so we get Kelsey on the phone with

00:56:55.400 --> 00:56:57.360
Billy, where we get the lower third saying that's

00:56:57.360 --> 00:57:00.079
Kelsey's only boyfriend. And I love the producer

00:57:00.079 --> 00:57:03.500
shade there. But Kelsey does say, we've moved

00:57:03.500 --> 00:57:05.679
past all the ugliness, and we are in a place

00:57:05.679 --> 00:57:09.300
where we can joke about this now. I'm going to

00:57:09.300 --> 00:57:12.679
start by saying, I believe Kelsey went into this

00:57:12.679 --> 00:57:15.820
with lighthearted intentions of just being like,

00:57:15.920 --> 00:57:18.400
oh, ha ha ha, whatever, this will be funny. I

00:57:18.400 --> 00:57:24.099
do believe that. We get the, like, cut over to

00:57:24.099 --> 00:57:28.679
Rosie calling her husband, saying, that she laid

00:57:28.679 --> 00:57:30.579
out the plans for the expansion on the counter

00:57:30.579 --> 00:57:32.260
and she's going to force Kelsey to look at them

00:57:32.260 --> 00:57:34.059
when she gets there. And I'm like, okay, whatever.

00:57:34.239 --> 00:57:36.579
Like, I don't know who that's for. I say all

00:57:36.579 --> 00:57:40.199
that to say, Kelsey rolls up with a literal siren

00:57:40.199 --> 00:57:43.960
going off where she's obviously trying to be

00:57:43.960 --> 00:57:47.760
funny. And this was stupid. Like this was, I'm

00:57:47.760 --> 00:57:52.820
just like, okay, whatever. But. Rosie says, I

00:57:52.820 --> 00:57:54.780
live in a very nice community where there's a

00:57:54.780 --> 00:57:57.420
no siren ordinance. First of all, that can't

00:57:57.420 --> 00:57:59.780
be a real thing. I didn't take the time to Google

00:57:59.780 --> 00:58:03.840
it. I cannot imagine that you're maybe a noise

00:58:03.840 --> 00:58:08.760
safety issue, yes, but maybe a noise ordinance.

00:58:08.880 --> 00:58:12.239
I don't believe that the HOA got together and

00:58:12.239 --> 00:58:14.679
they were like, we're going to put in the bylaws

00:58:14.679 --> 00:58:18.199
that you can't have sirens. Shut up. So then

00:58:21.089 --> 00:58:23.030
Kelsey gets out of the car and immediately says,

00:58:23.070 --> 00:58:25.190
I just had to bust your balls a little bit. So

00:58:25.190 --> 00:58:28.030
she goes into it saying like, oh, like it was

00:58:28.030 --> 00:58:29.570
supposed to be funny, blah, blah, blah, whatever.

00:58:31.750 --> 00:58:36.309
They go in the house and Rosie is clearly like,

00:58:36.369 --> 00:58:39.250
she's not going to get over this. And it's, it's

00:58:39.250 --> 00:58:43.369
a very, very ugly thing. And she hands Kelsey

00:58:43.369 --> 00:58:45.829
a measuring tape. I'm like this, this was going

00:58:45.829 --> 00:58:47.869
to go nowhere fast. And then, so it escalates

00:58:47.869 --> 00:58:52.659
so quickly. My bigger thing that like I keep

00:58:52.659 --> 00:58:54.260
coming back to is there has to be something here

00:58:54.260 --> 00:58:56.019
we don't know. Like there has to be something

00:58:56.019 --> 00:58:57.800
where there was like bad blood between them before

00:58:57.800 --> 00:59:00.599
this because like I do not believe this is a

00:59:00.599 --> 00:59:02.980
fight over saying your house is not 8 ,000 square

00:59:02.980 --> 00:59:06.179
feet and you had a polyamorous relationship.

00:59:06.360 --> 00:59:08.940
I do not believe that that's what we're seeing

00:59:08.940 --> 00:59:11.739
here. I'm sorry. What are your thoughts? Maybe

00:59:11.739 --> 00:59:14.659
that is what they're fighting about. Okay. Do

00:59:14.659 --> 00:59:17.739
you actually believe that though? No, there's

00:59:17.739 --> 00:59:22.300
no way. Unless they just really, the vibe is

00:59:22.300 --> 00:59:25.099
off. Hold on. Okay. Cam, what are your thoughts?

00:59:25.400 --> 00:59:28.480
I mean, it just sounds like, I mean, her relationship

00:59:28.480 --> 00:59:34.199
is open, right? Like, am I, am I not understanding

00:59:34.199 --> 00:59:37.920
it or? Well, it was open before she broke up

00:59:37.920 --> 00:59:41.699
with the other guy. And so I think they've acknowledged

00:59:41.699 --> 00:59:47.440
that, but like. I cannot imagine that like Rosie

00:59:47.440 --> 00:59:50.820
calling that out is like why they hate. And here's

00:59:50.820 --> 00:59:52.239
the thing. I don't think a lot of the hate is

00:59:52.239 --> 00:59:55.840
coming from Kelsey's side. Like I think this

00:59:55.840 --> 00:59:58.260
is an aggression from Rosie. So I can't figure

00:59:58.260 --> 01:00:01.139
out why Rosie feels the way she does about Kelsey.

01:00:01.559 --> 01:00:04.860
It doesn't feel very genuine. It feels manufactured.

01:00:05.760 --> 01:00:11.809
Like it's very. why would you get so mad at somebody

01:00:11.809 --> 01:00:15.449
for just making some comments about the upgrades

01:00:15.449 --> 01:00:17.449
you're trying to make your house or like expanding

01:00:17.449 --> 01:00:20.050
your home or something like that because yeah

01:00:20.050 --> 01:00:24.030
it's annoying you like it's shady but i mean

01:00:24.030 --> 01:00:27.829
if you put rosie in the like the shade and the

01:00:27.829 --> 01:00:31.469
reeds in another franchise like atlanta she wouldn't

01:00:31.469 --> 01:00:38.210
last a day no no she wouldn't So it escalates,

01:00:38.210 --> 01:00:41.829
and then Rosie starts screaming, you are literally

01:00:41.829 --> 01:00:47.349
no one. And this is where I'm like, oh, you think

01:00:47.349 --> 01:00:49.190
you're better than these other women, at least

01:00:49.190 --> 01:00:53.610
some of the other women. And you see Kelsey as

01:00:53.610 --> 01:00:56.090
someone who is in a perfect world, your peer.

01:00:56.610 --> 01:00:59.269
You don't like her, and you think that you're

01:00:59.269 --> 01:01:03.599
better than her. Rosie turns into just an absolute

01:01:03.599 --> 01:01:05.739
monster saying that the only thing Kelsey ever

01:01:05.739 --> 01:01:07.579
did was win a pageant because her sugar daddy

01:01:07.579 --> 01:01:10.019
paid for it. And then she takes her suitcase

01:01:10.019 --> 01:01:12.239
with the hair supplies in it, throws it outside,

01:01:12.360 --> 01:01:16.179
and then pushes Kelsey out the door. And this...

01:01:16.409 --> 01:01:19.070
might be one of my toxic traits but i love when

01:01:19.070 --> 01:01:21.610
we see a producer step in like have to step in

01:01:21.610 --> 01:01:23.710
because like it's getting physical i love it

01:01:23.710 --> 01:01:27.929
so much like a referee yes like like uh hang

01:01:27.929 --> 01:01:30.570
on let's let's cool it down a little bit and

01:01:30.570 --> 01:01:33.170
then like so she's like screaming like get out

01:01:33.170 --> 01:01:34.590
of my house get in my like whatever and like

01:01:34.590 --> 01:01:37.130
the the reaction felt disproportionate like i

01:01:37.130 --> 01:01:39.070
literally put in the notes i feel like rosie

01:01:39.070 --> 01:01:41.030
might need to talk to someone like something

01:01:41.030 --> 01:01:45.110
feels off here but that's neither here nor there

01:01:45.110 --> 01:01:48.889
and then i love kelsey because i believe in her

01:01:48.889 --> 01:01:51.570
mind this is all a very simple little argument

01:01:51.570 --> 01:01:53.829
that she's just she so she goes back into the

01:01:53.829 --> 01:01:58.070
house and she goes um for the record rosie i

01:01:58.070 --> 01:02:00.650
won that pageant fair and square and i don't

01:02:00.650 --> 01:02:04.469
suck dick for a living you're so pure and i love

01:02:04.469 --> 01:02:13.190
you so much And then Rosie's reaction, because

01:02:13.190 --> 01:02:16.289
this was Cam's episode, Cam, I want you to give

01:02:16.289 --> 01:02:20.170
the iconic line that we got from Rosie in this

01:02:20.170 --> 01:02:23.690
moment. Oh my God. Okay. She did call her a slam

01:02:23.690 --> 01:02:31.369
pig. I'm trying to, I honestly forgot. She leans

01:02:31.369 --> 01:02:34.070
over the balcony in her house and goes, everybody

01:02:34.070 --> 01:02:36.050
in Rhode Island knows you fuck married men. You're

01:02:36.050 --> 01:02:42.050
a fucking slam pig. well the dog also the dog

01:02:42.050 --> 01:02:44.289
made it her dog was like i don't know why they

01:02:44.289 --> 01:02:49.190
captured a like a shot of the dog during all

01:02:49.190 --> 01:02:51.650
of that and then there's a meme right now online

01:02:51.650 --> 01:02:54.030
that's like it's like if i send you a picture

01:02:54.030 --> 01:02:56.849
and if this picture that means i'm calling you

01:02:56.849 --> 01:03:01.389
a slam pig and it's the picture of the dog so

01:03:01.389 --> 01:03:04.050
out of this chaos i was like why are they like

01:03:04.050 --> 01:03:06.030
what does the dog have to do with this why are

01:03:06.030 --> 01:03:11.909
they adding the dog there's something i love

01:03:11.909 --> 01:03:14.849
about and housewives does this better than any

01:03:14.849 --> 01:03:19.630
other reality television show where the the the

01:03:19.630 --> 01:03:22.250
person whose job it is to get b -roll footage

01:03:22.250 --> 01:03:26.070
like where it's like the camera is like it's

01:03:26.070 --> 01:03:28.690
either the camera is laid down or like it's just

01:03:28.690 --> 01:03:30.849
like they're focusing on something else like

01:03:30.849 --> 01:03:35.110
those are like those are the housewives moments

01:03:35.110 --> 01:03:37.809
that like i really really love and care about

01:03:37.809 --> 01:03:42.230
like it's the um it's the cameraman picking up

01:03:42.230 --> 01:03:47.269
the the the um camera like to run into heather's

01:03:47.269 --> 01:03:51.349
room on vacation it's the like i didn't i didn't

01:03:51.349 --> 01:03:53.190
know i needed this until i had it and it's like

01:03:53.190 --> 01:03:55.050
now i know that i like i'm getting something

01:03:55.050 --> 01:04:00.250
real and good but so i guess a couple of questions

01:04:00.250 --> 01:04:04.550
cam um one Whose side are you on in this fight,

01:04:04.690 --> 01:04:07.690
Rosie or Kelsey's? I'm on Kelsey's side. I mean,

01:04:07.710 --> 01:04:12.429
I understand where, like, it probably wouldn't

01:04:12.429 --> 01:04:15.409
really be a good idea to show up with the whole

01:04:15.409 --> 01:04:18.289
microphone thing if you don't know the vibe of

01:04:18.289 --> 01:04:21.989
that person. But the reason why I'm siding with

01:04:21.989 --> 01:04:25.449
Kelsey is because I don't think she expected

01:04:25.449 --> 01:04:28.969
that reaction because it's not such a big deal.

01:04:30.670 --> 01:04:33.590
but if you get out of the car and you you literally

01:04:33.590 --> 01:04:35.389
say out loud i just had to bust your balls a

01:04:35.389 --> 01:04:39.849
little bit like yeah you knew it wasn't me just

01:04:39.849 --> 01:04:43.030
being mean like i was just joking like she she

01:04:43.030 --> 01:04:45.570
literally says it like it's just it's a weird

01:04:45.570 --> 01:04:48.230
sensitivity i don't get that's so i agree with

01:04:48.230 --> 01:04:50.170
you emma what were you gonna say i feel this

01:04:50.170 --> 01:04:53.369
i know i feel the exact same way it feels like

01:04:53.369 --> 01:04:57.840
i don't know to explain it it's like she went

01:04:57.840 --> 01:05:01.380
in there with the best of intentions and I feel

01:05:01.380 --> 01:05:03.280
for her because we've all been there where we're

01:05:03.280 --> 01:05:05.900
like you know trying to joke around and play

01:05:05.900 --> 01:05:10.019
around and that's not the vibe yeah and I feel

01:05:10.019 --> 01:05:12.739
like she really got put into a situation that

01:05:12.739 --> 01:05:15.679
she didn't expect to be in and I would have a

01:05:15.679 --> 01:05:20.820
hard time siding with Rosie like after seeing

01:05:20.820 --> 01:05:23.800
how it all went down You know, like, I would

01:05:23.800 --> 01:05:27.039
get Rosie's point of view of being like, like,

01:05:27.059 --> 01:05:30.099
don't come into my space and be like that. Like,

01:05:30.099 --> 01:05:34.699
whatever. But the way she flips her lid, it's

01:05:34.699 --> 01:05:37.800
like, how can you really? I mean, sometimes,

01:05:38.079 --> 01:05:40.699
like, I feel like sometimes you are the victim,

01:05:40.760 --> 01:05:43.340
but your actions make you the villain. I think

01:05:43.340 --> 01:05:46.840
that's exactly what happened here. And, I mean,

01:05:46.860 --> 01:05:51.360
for Rosie, I think she wants to be that main

01:05:51.360 --> 01:05:55.019
character. like on this franchise but we we just

01:05:55.019 --> 01:06:01.619
saw the seating chart yeah for the reunion I

01:06:01.619 --> 01:06:08.519
will tell you this is one reunion I like I get

01:06:08.519 --> 01:06:11.159
excited for most actually that's a lie I get

01:06:11.159 --> 01:06:12.940
excited for most reunions that aren't Orange

01:06:12.940 --> 01:06:14.960
County and Beverly Hills because like I'm just

01:06:14.960 --> 01:06:19.949
I've moved past those cities entirely but i am

01:06:19.949 --> 01:06:24.190
so excited to see this reunion because i think

01:06:24.190 --> 01:06:28.789
these this is a group of women who i i think

01:06:28.789 --> 01:06:31.250
we've seen everything up until this point has

01:06:31.250 --> 01:06:36.550
been very very real and i think i think this

01:06:36.550 --> 01:06:39.590
reunion is going to be gold like i am so excited

01:06:39.590 --> 01:06:44.429
yeah yeah um question between them so that's

01:06:44.429 --> 01:06:46.690
gonna a lot of that stuff is gonna come up yeah

01:06:46.690 --> 01:06:50.099
question number two and this is for all of us

01:06:50.099 --> 01:06:52.219
if you could be friends with any of these women

01:06:52.219 --> 01:06:54.099
on the cast who would who would you be friends

01:06:54.099 --> 01:07:03.639
with i'm gonna say joellen okay beautiful and

01:07:03.639 --> 01:07:07.139
it's like i i don't know like if i take a picture

01:07:07.139 --> 01:07:09.559
with her and post it on instagram that's gonna

01:07:09.559 --> 01:07:12.519
dramatically change my feed like it's gonna be

01:07:12.519 --> 01:07:17.849
amazing i agree i would be friends with joellen

01:07:17.849 --> 01:07:22.150
too number one i think she's she and her husband

01:07:22.150 --> 01:07:24.090
are both as hot as the day is long like they

01:07:24.090 --> 01:07:28.989
are so obnoxiously hot number two i think that

01:07:28.989 --> 01:07:32.570
she is the kind of friend like i i go back to

01:07:32.570 --> 01:07:35.449
that scene where they're at the polo match and

01:07:35.449 --> 01:07:38.760
she says to rula If you want proof, I'll find

01:07:38.760 --> 01:07:41.099
you proof. I believe that is a ride or die friend.

01:07:41.260 --> 01:07:43.500
And I think like she would go to the ends of

01:07:43.500 --> 01:07:47.119
the earth for her friends. I 100 % am Joellen

01:07:47.119 --> 01:07:51.929
too. I... My first instinct is Liz because I

01:07:51.929 --> 01:07:54.690
would want to be friends with Liz the most, but

01:07:54.690 --> 01:07:58.489
I'm not cool enough to be friends with Liz. She

01:07:58.489 --> 01:08:01.750
would never be friends with me. I think she would.

01:08:02.570 --> 01:08:05.710
She would be nice to me, but I would never really

01:08:05.710 --> 01:08:07.929
be in her circle. You're trying to get double.

01:08:08.050 --> 01:08:12.250
You're trying to get her and Dolores because

01:08:12.250 --> 01:08:19.300
you'll be Dolores too. I know they wouldn't accept

01:08:19.300 --> 01:08:24.819
me. Oh. I'm just not cool enough for them. They

01:08:24.819 --> 01:08:27.800
shouldn't. I like to believe that they would

01:08:27.800 --> 01:08:29.619
accept us into their circle. They'd be like,

01:08:29.760 --> 01:08:33.579
we'll put you on probation and we'll see how

01:08:33.579 --> 01:08:35.699
this goes. I like to believe that they would

01:08:35.699 --> 01:08:39.720
do that for us. I believe that more for Joellen

01:08:39.720 --> 01:08:49.800
than for Liz. Sit with us. cam did you enjoy

01:08:49.800 --> 01:08:52.380
this podcast with us yeah this was really fun

01:08:52.380 --> 01:08:55.260
good you can come back anytime you want cam tell

01:08:55.260 --> 01:08:57.159
the besties where they can find you you can find

01:08:57.159 --> 01:09:01.020
me on tiktok for a for bravo and on instagram

01:09:01.020 --> 01:09:04.920
gay for bravo .ig because i couldn't get it without

01:09:04.920 --> 01:09:11.539
the ig on instagram we're gonna have to pay for

01:09:11.539 --> 01:09:19.560
that probably we'll all get there um from indy

01:09:19.560 --> 01:09:24.840
to california to rhode island we love you thank

01:09:24.840 --> 01:09:26.899
you for being here thank you for listening and

01:09:26.899 --> 01:09:29.340
cam you are welcome back anytime you were super

01:09:29.340 --> 01:09:31.840
fun to hang out with and we loved this